The answer to this question might be quite and disappointing. That one reason that stops your child from achieving all the desired goals might be YOU yourself! Yes, your over protective nature or over caring behavior might put your child into trouble. He/she might feel pressurized either due to over expectations or due to over criticisation. And in both the cases, a child tends to move towards depression and anxiety. More than a parent, try to become a friend of your child. It’s easy!
1. Take him/her to toy/stationery shopping regularly
2. Spend some sit back time with him/her after school/college
3. Plan a creative and productive weekend together
4 .Participate in his/her school/college projects
5. Talk often about his current problems and obstacles